Hi Hillary_S
Thank you for the kind greeting. Your points are well taken. I used the word “seem” for the very reason that I do not know for sure, but the perception could be there and perception is reality to many. While I definitely do not agree with all that MadA said and especially the manner in which he said it, he nevertheless did have a few valid observations, I thought. Had I known just how vicious this thread would become, I probably would not have said a word.
My words were in no way intended for Ms. Anderson. I know all too well that going public can bring a boat load of trouble and she is to be commended for her every effort in our cause as are Seeker, LE, Amazing, Max, Alan, Norm, Jan, Kent and a host of others. The risk in naming individuals is that we can not begin to name all that make great sacrifices toward the cause of freedom from JWism. Most of us have very little idea of the pain that the rest of us have and continue to endure as a result of our JW experience.
Not you, H_S, but some who commented later, apparently lumped me in with MadA, because they directed their comments to us both. First of all, I never use four letter words on this board, and certainly not the particular four letter word that he used. I NEVER use that word. I think that it has no place in anyone’s vocabulary, but that is my personal preference (I come from a generation that didn’t even think that word, let alone use it).
Secondly, I have great respect for many here who have stuck their necks out to accomplish much good in the fight against the totalitarianism that is the WTS. Many, including me, have fought injustice in the JW world and have fought to save family and friends. We have won some, but there have been many battles lost and we have scars for our trouble.
Let’s not scar each other here. If my earlier words offended anyone, I am sorry. Please accept my apology. I am tired of battle and I wish to save what strength I have for more important battles, battles for freedom of my family and my own personal freedom to think as I wish without the guilt that my former JW life imposed.
We have a much more important battles for the minds of millions of enslaved people within the JW world. We need each other. We can draw strength form our mutual expressions of kindness, knowledge, courage and love. Love of freedom, freedom form guilt, freedom from the drudgery of meeting after meeting, freedom from field service that we did not have our heart in, freedom to find our own relationship with our God in what ever form that takes, freedom from the need to answer to any human for what we think, where we are on Sunday morning, and on and on and on…
Freedom to love each other. It is love that conquers all.
Sam Beli
PS Hillary, I do not have a picture of myself on the web. Cary’s was the closest that I could find
I have seen all the works which have been done under the sun, and behold, all is vanity and striving after wind. What is crooked cannot be straightened and what is lacking cannot be counted. Solomon